A$AP Rocky Shares How His Mother Influenced His Romance with Rihanna

A$AP Rocky revealed that his mother, Renee Black, played a significant role in his relationship with singer Rihanna. During a recent appearance on the podcast *Popcast*, the rapper, whose real name is Rakim Mayers, shared that Black often encouraged him to pursue a romantic relationship with Rihanna. He recalled her saying, “I want you with Riri,” despite his initial reluctance to acknowledge any romantic feelings.

This conversation took place long before their relationship blossomed into romance in late 2019. The couple, who has welcomed three children together—RZA, aged 3; Riot, aged 2; and their youngest, Rocki, born just three months ago—have often reflected on the deep connection they share. A$AP described it as feeling as if they were always meant to be together.

Divine Timing and Friendship Turned Love

A$AP noted the many similarities that bind them, including being born in the same year and shared family roots. “It was just like we were on the same page,” he explained, emphasizing their strong friendship that began long before they became a couple. He acknowledged that, although he always had feelings for Rihanna, both of them were not ready for a serious relationship earlier in their lives. “I’m thankful that she was put in my life at that time,” he said, reflecting on the importance of timing in their love story.

Rihanna also weighed in on their relationship dynamics, stating that the COVID-19 pandemic accelerated their romance. In an interview published in 2024, she noted that the isolation of lockdown forced them to confront their feelings for each other. “COVID sped up our relationship,” she remarked, adding that the circumstances helped them realize they were ready to start a family together.

A Timeline of Their Journey Together

The couple’s journey began to unfold publicly in 2012 when they performed their hit song “Cockiness” at the MTV Video Music Awards. Their chemistry was evident, and they toured together in 2013. Over the years, their friendship deepened, and they made numerous appearances at high-profile events, including the Louis Vuitton Menswear Spring/Summer 2019 show and The Fashion Awards later that year.

Their relationship garnered significant media attention, especially when they attended the 2021 Met Gala together, showcasing their unique fashion choices. Rihanna revealed during an interview that keeping her pregnancy a secret from friends was difficult. “They know my habits,” she explained, noting her sudden cravings for sweets as a clear giveaway.

Their family grew as they welcomed their first child in Los Angeles in May 2022. Rihanna continued to shine throughout her pregnancies, making headlines with her stylish pregnancy fashion. The couple announced their second child in August 2023 and later shared their first family photos together.

As their relationship evolved, Rihanna confirmed that their romantic journey truly began at the end of 2019. “We knew what we’re capable of, and the trouble that we could bring to each other’s lives,” she stated, highlighting the cautious approach they took as they entered this new chapter.

With the announcement of their third child expected by 2025, A$AP Rocky and Rihanna’s relationship continues to thrive, marked by shared experiences, deep affection, and a commitment to family. Their story resonates with many, illustrating how love can develop from friendship, shaped by timing and life circumstances.